Sex, Love and Relationship Coaching

I have an extensive training in sex, love and relationship coaching from the Vital and Integrated Tantric Approach (VITA) course run by Layla Martin. The course is based in the philosophy of Tantra, Daosim & Sacred Sexuality. I began to study in this area because so much of my time with people in clinic was focused on their relationships and how they felt about themselves and so much of this was caught up in the world of sexuality/freedom/desire/societal programming. Our inner relationship with ourselves and our relationships with others makes or breaks how we enjoy or experience life, with acupuncture I had a physical tool, with energy work an energetic tool but neither deeply touched on the need for love and relationship and sexual clarity. With the three I can take a person where they need to go to reach their goal or their highest potential.

I chose this particular course because it had a depth of training (650 hours) it came from a scientific approach but integrated working with the body, the unconscious mind and the energetic system. Neuroscience, psychology, spirituality and energy work drawn together into a beautiful fluid trauma informed system of working with a person in the way that they need in each session, moving them towards the place they want to be.

Coaching is different to traditional therapy or counselling in that when you enter into sessions with a coach you are working towards something together, you are not necessarily going over everything in your past or focusing on what is wrong right now you are focusing on what you want/desire to happen/be/do/have. The area I work in relates to what an individual wants to happen in their relationship to themselves (love) and/or within their current relationship or hoped for relationship with another, sexuality is part of both areas and is a key to finding the freedom of expression that enables us to know deep down that we are worthy. So much self worth is tied up with sexuality, love and relationships working in these areas provides an avenue for a better life for people, which for me is the point of this work. I am here for my clients highest good.

Coaching is done over zoom, I am flexible with timings, I recommend a minimum of 5 sessions, one per week, each session is 1.5-2 hours and costs between £45 and £120, depending on your financial situation.